Enemies to lovers
Jul. 9th, 2025 10:29 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
So I got to wondering how other people define it. I selected check boxes since some people might have more than one answer. I mean, *I'm* not even sure where I fall in all of this!
How would you define Enemies to Lovers? (or Enemies to Friends, if you're not a shipper)
Must try to kill each other (or at least want to), or be on opposite sides of a conflict with life-or-death stakes
14 (37.8%)
Rivalries like sports rivalries are fine, but there needs to be a strong personal element and/or unhealthy fixation on each other (not just regular sports team conflict)
18 (48.6%)
Any kind of rivalry or antagonism will do
9 (24.3%)
For me it's about the Vibe⢠- from distrust/antagonism to trust, whatever form that takes
16 (43.2%)
I do not accept it as proper E2L if there's any softening at all - they must remain antagonists
0 (0.0%)
I know it when I see it but don't get too fussed about definitions
5 (13.5%)
My thoughts are too complex for your ticky boxes (answer in comments)
1 (2.7%)
Not my trope so I don't care, but I want to click something.
2 (5.4%)